[this is from my old journal, written on 9th July 2020]
Since my early years, I’ve harboured a steadfast belief: In every person I meet, I find a point of connection, not to centre the conversation around myself, but to discover paths of empathy and forge meaningful connections. This philosophy stems from the understanding that, despite our varied experiences and emotions, the commonality of our feelings binds us. Don’t you agree?
This introspection was sparked by a question that popped up in my head when I was 18: “Why do I feel compelled to understand others’ feelings?” It challenged me to explore why I consistently sought to find common ground with everyone I engaged with.
Delving into this question, I first examined my intentions. Was I driven by ego, attempting to make every interaction about me, or to measure who had it better or worse?
Absolutely not.
Life, in my view, is not a binary of ‘right’ or ‘wrong.’ Nor was it an egoistic desire to be perceived as a saviour, someone who ‘gets’ everyone. The answer to these musings was a resounding NO.
Over time, clarity emerged. My inclination to empathise and connect is not a strategy or facade; it’s the essence of who I am. It’s rooted in a profound belief of mine in our interconnectedness, in the shared fabric of our existence that whispers, “We are all one.” The grief and happiness we encounter may differ in texture and tone, yet at their core, the way they make us feel is fundamentally the same. This shared emotional landscape underpins my understanding.
More so, the crucibles of my life— being a victim of rape and the baggage that I carried in school years, enduring the scars of dysfunctional family, and all the learnings from the tapestry of daily life—have only deepened my conviction. These experiences are not just personal stories; they’re bridges to connect with others, offering solace, healing, and the profound comfort of being seen and heard. Through empathy, through sharing our emotional truths, we find peace and understanding.
This path has led me to ponder,
What is my superpower?
My husband often says to me “THAT is your superpower”, and it’s starting to make sense what he means.
How do I connect with the world and the people in it? My journey has shown me that our greatest strengths often emerge from what naturally comes to us—mine is the capacity to deeply connect with others through the universal language of emotion. By leveraging my innate curiosity and a deep understanding of my own feelings, I create meaningful connections, starting with myself and extending to those around me.
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